Aspiration
Before going to bed, Odd and I usually talk while cuddling under the sheets. Our conversations ranged from mundane to something interesting. It was a night before Odd was going to travel to Oslo for his monthly course to be a franchisee and we had our usual talk.
“Do you think it’s absurd to aspire something great?” I asked him. My head resting on his chest while my hand was fiddling with his t-shirt.
“No,” he replied while caressing my cheek. “I think it’s great to dream of something.”
I shifted my position and I was now looking at his handsome face, staring at those emerald eyes of his. “You know what, you always support me even though some people thought that my dreams or ambitions were unrealistic.”
“Of course, because I know you can do it,” he said, smiling at me. “I can see that you’re working hard to achieve it.”
I didn’t say a word and instead dug my head on his chest. He smelled like a baby.
I was listening to his heartbeat when he spoke another word.
“I mean people need dreams in order to work hard and be motivated,” he said. “Those people who thought that your dreams were unrealistic are afraid that you might be disappointed.”
“Duh,” I said, rolling my eyes. “It’s my life and if I fail, I’ll try again no matter what it takes. If others managed to succeed, so can I.”
“You’re right.” he said calmly, moving to face me. We were on eye level as his hands cupped my face. “I love you and I want you to be happy.”
He kissed me.
“I love you, too,” I said. “That’s why I’m working hard not just for me, but for us.”
He smiled and kissed me again. “Let’s go to sleep. You know that I have an early flight.”
I nodded, moving my head back on my pillow. I took a last gaze on our window where I saw the clear night sky gilded with twinkling stars. It was beautiful and then I closed my eyes.
This is beautiful.
I know what it feels like to have someone you love, love you back and have faith and belief in you and support you all the way.
People have different dreams and capacities of fulfilling them, and there are people who probably think your dreams are farfetched because they don’t have the same motivation you do. I agree with Odd; people need dreams to be motivated! It’s a bit like making a to-do list or a list of goals, but withs
Something bigger and something you really want to achieve.
Thank you for the comment on my layout! I got readers to comment on what love is, which is where all the quotes in the rotation in the header come from.
As for meeting your half sister, I hope it all goes well!
Thanks Georgina!
I so agree with you. That’s why I don’t make fun of people who strive to do something with their lives. I always admire people, who reached for the stars and at the same time doing it right!
Oh yes, I’m soooo excited to see her!
Whoops, *with something
Typing on my iPhone is a pain sometimes.
I’m with you on that!
You should write love stories !
Good you found your soul mate !
Thanks Sidney!
I’m actually writing a book now, but it’s a combination of fantasy, romance and adventure.
Dreams. Ambitions. Vision.
All great things.
Chasing your dreams and hoping to see them come true has made a difference between a good man and a great man in the past.
It is good to have dreams.
That is so true!
This could have been a conversation between Astrid and me, Charles, or between some of our straight friends, too, I’m sure…those who know how to “be there” for each ohter like this. It’s poetry in action. So sweet and touching.
Then Astrid came over to look at your sheets and we started a concersation about how you guys sure know how to accessorize!
I like the way you said it, “Poetry in action.” Beautiful!
Thanks that you guys like the sheets in the picture. I bought it on a sale!
“Never give up your dreams….”…Someone said that—I cannot remember who, but whoever it was, was absolutely right! I love that Odd supports your dreams, my dear Charles….He is a “Keeper”, as they say. A really GOOD MAN! I support you too, even though I am physically very far away, my dear. Hold on to your DREAMS, no matter what other people may think…Odd is right that people don’t want you to be disappointed, BUT, that’s not the point. The point is following your Heart’s Desire. And Odd knows that and understands that, my dear Charles…Believe in yourself ALL the way, Charles. When you follow your Heart, you cannot go wrong. I send you Blessings!
He’s indeed a keeper.
Thank you Naomi for always been there no matter the distance!
What a sweet night you had. Can’t believe you inspired me for two different ways.
I’m very happy to hear that!
That’s such a sweet entry. I feel that you know you have found the right person to give your heart to when the person isn’t laughing or teasing your unrealistic dreams.
Thank you Marina!
I knew it all along that I end up with him when we first met. After almost 5 years of being together (1 year as a married couple) I still feel giggly every time I talk about him.
One of my favourite posts of yours. The tone is really loving.
Early flight? Where are you guys travelling?
I’m happy that you like this entry. I’m planning to write most of my entries in this manner. I felt it gives this personal touch while giving the readers a novel-like feeling.
It’s just Odd. He’s in Oslo now, but he’ll be back in Bergen on Friday. He’s on a business related course.
somewhere in all of us lies a need to aspire and achieve, i wish you good luck!
You’re right and thank you!
omg. That is like the sweetest thing. =)
at least, we dream. unlike others who have nothing to aspire as if they have everything in the world in their hands already. 
anyway, I am with you with the too high ambitions as people say it.
The beauty of actually aiming for the highest point is that when you fail to reach the very top, at least,you won’t be in the flat ground.
anyway, tumblr is cool. but originality somehow does not work there. tsk
Thanks Ayah. Yes, Tumblr is cool, but it’s really not for me. Plus, I don’t get really get it with the “reblogging” thing going on.
You are so blessed to have each other!!!! I hope your meeting goes well!!!
I really feel that way. Thanks Kay!
You transform non-fiction into non-humdrum cutesy true stories! Amazing
Thanks Barry! I think it’s interesting to do this kind of approach in some of my blog entries.
of course! you should blog more often! haha
This is so charming, so cute.
Aww thanks dear!
I’m not sure how I’m able to type this when I’m sure I’ve just melted into a puddle of awwwwwwwww. Haha
You make wedded bliss sound… quite blissful. It would be nice to cuddle with someone and be able to have conversations like that before I drift off to sleep every night.
Beautifully written and very heartfelt
Hello Felisa! I’m glad that you like this entry. You’re right, I’m really happy with my married life. I couldn’t ask for a better husband than Odd.
For the record, you’re a very lovely writer. It was suspenseful for me, “OMG WHAT’S GONNA HAPPEN NEXT?!” XD I usually don’t care much for romance, but your story was very sweet. ^^ You and Odd actually make me reconsider that true love does exist.
Hello Kelsey! Thank you very much for your kind words.
What a beautiful story, I think that you are really lucky to find someone like Odd – and I know he is lucky to find someone like you! Anybody who believes in you in this way has to be wonderful!
It is really awesome to have someone supporting you. I feel that you guys are a great couple.
And no, it is not absurd to aspire something great.
You write beautifully^^
“t’s my life and if I fail, I’ll try again no matter what it takes. If others managed to succeed, so can I.”
I like that! That’s just what I always keep in mind. I like trying new things and I like challenges. No matter if I fail or succeed I still give new things a go.
I just don’t want to regret about not doing things just because I felt like I would fail.
He sure is supportive. Supportive partners are the best!
chase, you 2 are wonderful together. i am so happy you guys found each other. nice entry. i want an odd, too! haha.
i miss you!!!
how’s your weekend?
Hi Charles! I love your determination. And it’s really great that you are in a very supportive and wonderful relationship. Keep dreaming big!
Have a great Monday!
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sweet.
but i understand what odd meant when he said that people are just afraid to see you getting hurt. yes, it’s your life, but still it’s hard to see your loved ones get disappointed and hurt.
but your know what? from what i know of you.. even if it’s the most impossible thing, i’m sure you can do it.
A very touching and well written exchange. Dream big!
Just a simple comment from me: This is true love – I’m happy for both of you!
I think that all dreams are easier to reach if you have the love of a partner to encourage you, and Odd seems to be just the partner that you need. Reach for the sky, and if it’s just out of reach for you, Odd will provide the ladder to raise you up as far as you need to go.
you can reach you dreams just believe inyoursef
Haven’t read your blog for a while… After reading this post, I think you two are very sweet. You are a very lucky guy – Odd loves you and supports you.